Why Mirowitz?

November 18, 2024

Some parents have their children’s educational path mapped out from day one, whether homeschooling, private school, or public school. That’s amazing, and I commend their commitment!  But this article is for the rest of us—the parents who wrestle with school decisions every year and constantly reevaluate what’s best for our children. It’s normal to feel the weight of these choices and worry about getting it right. 

While Eric and I knew no school could perfectly meet every need, we had clear priorities. We wanted our kids to be truly known and valued, to be challenged academically, and to grow in a place that nurtures empathy, confidence, and informed perspectives. We expected ups and downs, understanding that children and adults make mistakes. We wanted a space where humanity is embraced and our children can develop into their best selves.

A Community of Role Models:
One of the standout aspects of Jewish day school education is the emphasis on role models—teachers and older students—who lead by example.  These role models demonstrate how to embody leadership qualities, academic ambition, and ethical behavior while maintaining a strong, proud Jewish identity. These role models instill in students a sense of purpose and belonging, teaching them that Judaism is not just a heritage but a source of meaning and joy woven into daily life. With this strong foundation, students gain lifelong tools for engaging with the world. They carry with them the confidence that comes from understanding who they are and the stories of where they come from, which provides an anchor in an increasingly complex and globalized society. Whether Jewish or Jewish-adjacent, parents can appreciate the unique benefits of this education model.

Academic and Social Success Beyond Middle School:
Choosing a small educational setting can be invaluable, especially when students reach middle school.  A more intimate environment ensures personalized attention during a crucial period of growth, enabling students to thrive in a values-based and academically rigorous experience. This phase, pivotal for shaping character and personal identity, benefits immensely from a school that integrates strong academic programs with deep-rooted cultural and moral education. Graduates of Jewish day schools often excel in their future educational paths, whether at elite private institutions or competitive public schools, equipped with a well-rounded education that fosters resilience, adaptability, and strong problem-solving skills. Parents often worry about social dynamics and friendships during these formative years.  A national poll by the University of Michigan C.S. Mott Children’s Hospital highlighted that one in five parents of children aged 6-12 are concerned about their child’s social connections. Yet, according to Dr. Mary Rooney from the National Institute of Mental Health, children need just one or two close friends to support robust mental health; popularity is not a prerequisite for well-being. This aligns with personal experiences from many families: even in varying class sizes—whether graduating with just nine peers or with forty—students can form lasting, lifelong friendships.

A Pillar of Stability While Equipping Students to Face the Real World:
Jewish day schools play an essential role in providing stability, guidance, and resilience, particularly during times of crisis. Whether facing local or global challenges, these schools create a supportive environment that reinforces unity and mutual care among students and families. Through Jewish teachings and values, students learn the importance of coming together and maintaining hope in difficult times, fostering a sense of responsibility to their community and the broader world. This nurturing environment prepares students to navigate the complexities of a diverse society, including facing antisemitism and other hostilities. Our school emphasizes knowledge-based empowerment, strong identity, and critical thinking. Equipped with factual understanding, students can effectively counter falsehoods and stand against prejudice with informed confidence. This preparation is invaluable as they move on to high school, college, and beyond, enabling them to confront challenges as upstanders who speak out, act justly, and take pride in who they are. While teaching students to be proud and resilient, Jewish day schools also prioritize the development of empathy. Empathy is seamlessly integrated into the curriculum at every grade level and in all subjects. This emphasis on understanding and compassion helps students appreciate diverse perspectives and teaches them tolerance. Learning empathy as an essential skill contributes to their overall character development, fostering a generation that values cooperation and the well-being of others. This dual focus on resilience and empathy ensures that students are prepared to stand firm in the face of challenges and lead with kindness and understanding, positively impacting their communities and the world. As you reflect on your priorities for your child’s education, as I did when my children were young, in addition to reflecting on excellent academics, please consider the profound, lasting benefits a Jewish day school offers.

From a strong sense of identity, resilience, and empathy to a commitment to community and the courage to face challenges confidently, these are the gifts that endure far beyond their years in school. Choosing a Jewish day school means choosing an education that shapes strong students and compassionate, principled individuals ready to impact the world positively.
As I close my thoughts, I want to share this article, published today in Jewish Philanthropy about Jewish Day Schools Building Leaders, Not Just Students.  
L’Shalom
Raquel